Episode 713: Why Cluttery People Need Spiritual Giants (And How to Find Yours)

Do you ever feel like your cluttered home is just a symptom of something deeper? That nagging sense of overwhelm, the guilt about unfinished projects, the shame that creeps in when company comes over—what if it all points to something going on in your heart?

In this thought-provoking episode, Kathi Lipp sits down with author Lori G Melton to explore a beautiful spiritual practice that might just change the way you approach both your faith and your clutter. Lori's new book, Journey with a Giant, invites readers into a year-long journey of walking alongside a faith mentor from history—someone whose life and example can inspire transformation.

What You'll Discover in This Episode

If you've ever felt "less than" or wondered why you can't seem to get your act together, this episode offers a fresh perspective. Lori shares why she chose Mr. Rogers as her spiritual giant—and what she learned about showing up faithfully even when life feels messy.

You'll learn:

  • Why studying imperfect human faith heroes can be more transformative than only studying biblical characters

  • How Brother Lawrence's simple practice of scrubbing pots can speak to overwhelmed, cluttery hearts

  • Why Harriet Tubman's story offers courage for those who feel small and insignificant

  • How to keep a year-long spiritual practice simple and doable for real, busy people

  • The surprising connection between decluttering your home and going deeper with God

Why This Matters for Your Decluttering Journey

As Kathi points out, our hearts are where clutter starts. The fears, guilt, and shame that lead us into the path of clutter can only be truly addressed when we draw closer to God. And sometimes, seeing how other imperfect humans have faithfully walked with Him gives us the courage to believe we can too.

A Practice for Real Life

Lori's approach is refreshingly doable: just two to three times a week, varying your resources month by month. Watch a documentary one month, listen to a podcast the next, read a chapter when you have time. The goal isn't perfection—it's presence.

Key Takeaways

  • Decluttering creates margin for deeper spiritual growth

  • Walking with a faith giant for a year allows for deep, transformational work

  • Imperfect people make the best mentors because they show us we can be spiritual giants too

  • Showing up faithfully, even when you feel insufficient, is enough

  • You can take Lori's "Transformational 10" quiz to find your perfect faith giant match

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About Our Guests

Lori G Melton

Author, Spiritual Director & Retreat Leader

The Sanctuary at Bear Creek Retreat Center

AI GENERATED - PLEASE REVIEW: Lori G. Melton is an author, certified spiritual director and retreat leader who helps people deepen their intimacy with God. She and her husband co-founded and direct The Sanctuary at Bear Creek Retreat Center in Allegan, Michigan, and she hosts the Sanctuary Stirrings podcast. Her debut book, “Journey with a Giant,” released in November 2025, guides readers through a year-long spiritual formation practice.

Promised Resources

  • Journey with a Giant (Book) by Lori G. Melton

    Book introducing the practice of walking with a spiritual giant to aid spiritual formation; includes the subtitle: Choose Your Guide, Pursue Your Purpose, and Grow in Your Walk with God.

Resources Mentioned

  • Transformational 10 Quiz (Spiritual Giant Quiz)

    Spiritual Giant Quiz developed to help people find their spiritual giant; described as Transformational 10; exact quiz URL not publicly specified and may be embedded on the site or accessed via signup.

  • So Long Status Quo by Susy Flory

    Book highlighting nine women who changed the world; recommended as a companion resource for Lori's Journey with a Giant practice.

  • Lori Melton's Website

    Lori Melton's official website; mentions presence on Facebook and Instagram as well as the site itself.

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Episode Topics

spiritual growthfaith mentorsMr. RogersBrother LawrenceHarriet TubmanJourney with a GiantLori Meltonspiritual formationdecluttering and faithheart cluttershowing up faithfullyyear-long journeyoverwhelmedpeacegoing deeper with God

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